Congratulations! No matter if you're expecting twins, triplets, or even more, you're about to begin a wonderful journey filled with double (or triple!) the giggles, snuggles, and baby milestones.
But as you’ve probably already guessed, raising multiples means your baby essentials shopping list will look a bit different from that of parents with just one baby. Managing all those tiny outfits, diapers, bottles, and toys can seem overwhelming, but with a little planning and smart strategies, you’ll have it under control in no time.
Start With the Basics - What Do You Really Need?
It can be tempting to think you need double or triple of everything when you’re having multiples, but that’s not always the case. Some items you’ll definitely need in duplicate or triplicate, but for others, one will be just fine. Let’s break it down -
Must-Have Multiples
Car Seats – Each baby needs their own car seat. This is non-negotiable for safety reasons, and you’ll want to make sure you choose ones that fit well in your vehicle.
Cribs or Bassinets – While some parents of multiples start with their babies sharing a crib, eventually, they’ll each need their own sleep space. Cribs or bassinets are an important investment.
High Chairs – When they reach that fun stage of eating solids, each baby will need their own high chair (or at least a sturdy booster seat that attaches to your chairs).
Strollers – A good stroller for multiples, whether it’s a double or triple stroller, is essential. Look for models that are easy to fold and maneuver. Consider the width if you need to navigate narrow doorways.
Buy One, Share the Fun
Changing Table – You can likely get by with one changing table or pad. Just make sure it’s in a central spot where you’ll have easy access.
Baby Bathtub – Babies don’t take up much room in a tub, so you can probably manage with just one baby bathtub, bathing them one at a time until they’re big enough for the regular tub.
Toys & Play Mats – Babies tend to like playing together, so you don’t need multiples of every toy or play mat. Rotate toys to keep them interested and reduce clutter.
Bulk Buy the Essentials
When it comes to items like diapers, wipes, and formula, having multiples means you’ll go through these at lightning speed. Buying in bulk can save you time, money, and endless trips to the store. Here’s how to stock up smartly –
Diapers & Wipes
You’re going to need a lot of diapers. Consider signing up for a diaper subscription service that delivers regularly so you never run out.
Buy wipes in bulk packs too. You’ll use them for everything from diaper changes to wiping faces and sticky hands.
Formula & Bottles
If you’re using formula, calculate how much you’ll need and stock up when it’s on sale. Check with your pediatrician about which formulas to use.
Make sure you have enough bottles so that you’re not constantly washing them. While some parents of multiples suggest 4-6 bottles per baby, having a few extra can be a real lifesaver, especially for night feedings.
Organization Is Key
With multiples, staying organized is essential. Keeping track of what belongs to which baby, when to replenish supplies, and how to maintain a clutter-free space can be tricky, but it’s not impossible.
Labeling
Labeling can be your best friend. Use labels or color-coded systems for bottles, pacifiers, and clothing. This is especially helpful if your multiples are on different feeding schedules or have different dietary needs. Some parents even use color-coded laundry baskets!
Storage
You’ll want a dedicated storage system for each type of baby item. Bins or drawers with labels for diapers, wipes, clothes, and toys can help keep everything in order. If you’re short on space, vertical storage options like shelves or hanging organizers can save room and keep things tidy.
Clothes
Babies grow so fast! Instead of buying too many outfits in one size, focus on essentials like onesies, sleepers, and socks, and buy a few sets in larger sizes to have ready when they outgrow their current clothes. Keep a "too small" bin handy for each baby, and once clothes no longer fit, toss them in to avoid clutter.
Consider Secondhand or Borrowing
Buying brand-new for multiples can get expensive fast. But remember, babies outgrow things really quickly. Consider gently-used or secondhand baby gear to save money without sacrificing quality.
Clothes – Check out consignment shops or online marketplaces for secondhand baby clothes. Babies wear some items for such a short time, they’re often still in great condition.
Gear – Ask friends or family members with older kids if you can borrow baby gear, like swings, bouncers, or baby carriers. You’ll save money, and your friends will appreciate the decluttering!
Be Ready for Lots of Laundry
Multiples mean you’ll be doing lots of laundry, especially during those early months when spit-ups, diaper blowouts, and drool are a daily occurrence.
Create a Laundry Routine – Set a specific time each day or every other day to do a load of baby laundry. Waiting too long can lead to an overwhelming pile.
Stain Removal – Invest in a good stain remover and treat stains as soon as they happen. Keeping a spray bottle near your changing area can help make this easier.
Take Advantage of Multiples Discounts
Many baby product companies offer discounts for families with multiples. It’s worth checking with the manufacturer of diapers, formula, and other essentials to see if they offer twin or triplet discounts. Joining a multiples club or parent group can also provide access to resources and discount programs.
Keep Your Sanity Intact – Simplify When Possible
With so much on your plate, the key to staying sane is to simplify wherever you can –
Routine Is Your Friend – Establishing a routine for feeding, changing, and sleeping can help you stay organized and give you some much-needed predictability in your day.
Meal Prep – Prepping meals in bulk for yourself can save time. Invest in freezer-friendly containers so you always have something on hand.
Ask for Help – Don’t be afraid to ask family and friends for help, whether it’s babysitting, meal delivery, or helping with chores. You don’t have to do it all on your own!
Having multiples can feel like an enormous task at times, but with a bit of planning and organization, you’ll find your rhythm. Remember that it’s okay to make adjustments along the way. What works today might need tweaking tomorrow, and that’s perfectly normal. Enjoy the special moments, and know that while the workload may be heavy, the joy is multiplied too!
